Learning Challenge: Observing Empathy

I had the chance to see someone practicing empathy this week. One of friends is also a close friend of my girlfriend, and they were having a pretty rough go of it this week. My girlfriend took the extra time out of her busy schedule to sit down and just talk with him and validate the problems he has been facing. She wasn't offering suggestions or ways to fix his problems, because that isn't what he needed. Right then, he just needed someone to listen to him and reassure him that what was bothering him wasn't something trivial. I think that is really important to know what people need at any given time and knowing what you should and should not try to do for them.

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